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Ep 16Why Are So Many Jews Rich? (with R' Daniel Lapin)
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Torah & Jewish outlook · 1:20

"Do what you love and you'll never work a day" is one of the worst pieces of advice

Money is a spiritual thing. It is evidence that you have pleased another one of Hashem's children.

Rabbi Daniel Lapin

Ep 16Dec 21, 2021

Why Are So Many Jews Rich? (with R' Daniel Lapin)

with Rabbi Daniel Lapin

Money is a spiritual thing. It is evidence that you have pleased another one of Hashem's children.

Rabbi Daniel Lapin

More moments · 3

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Who did more good for the world: Bill Gates or Mother Teresa?
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The Havdalah cup overflows for a reason: your lifestyle must be less than your income
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"Get me a motorcycle" and the slap that taught him happiness is an obligation

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Quotes

“Your lifestyle should always be less than your income ... so that there's overflow to be used for the good of others. (Dave Ramsey, reading from Lapin's book in a clip)”

Dave Ramsey

“Actually, it's a lot filthier to be poor.”

Rabbi Daniel Lapin

“Poverty equals virtue. That's a devastatingly destructive equation.”

Rabbi Daniel Lapin

“We'd all like to be paid more than we are. Doesn't mean we're underpaid.”

Rabbi Daniel Lapin

“Winning money or getting money does not bring happiness. Interestingly enough, earning money does.”

Rabbi Daniel Lapin

“Daniel, your happiness isn't my obligation. It's yours. (his mother, when he was 15)”

Rabbi Daniel Lapin

Takeaways

  1. 1 The Havdalah cup overflows: earn enough to fill your own cup and spill over to others.
  2. 2 You can't succeed at what you believe is immoral. Culture calls money dirty; Jewish tradition sees honest earning as good. "Poverty equals virtue" is destructive.
  3. 3 Avodah means both work and worship - serving God's children (customers) is serving God.
  4. 4 Money is spiritual - trust, a promise - not a fixed pie. A voluntary sale creates wealth for both sides (the light-up sneakers story).
  5. 5 "Do what you love" is bad advice. Ask how you can serve the most people best, then learn to love it. Entrepreneurship is a learned skill.
  6. 6 Debt: Ramsey's no-debt rule is hard for large Orthodox families. Pay cash for consumer items; business debt can make sense with a plan. Ramsey's method - cash hurts, cut non-essentials, tackle debts in order - has helped thousands.
  7. 7 Increasing revenue makes getting out of debt much easier.
  8. 8 Earning brings satisfaction; lottery wins and trust funds often don't. Simcha is a mitzvah - don't let a bad mood pollute your home.
  9. 9 If you're stuck in a job for now, it's a change of attitude, not a change of job: see the joy in serving people.
  10. 10 "It is not good for man to be alone": family and commerce are God's two cures for isolation. Ben Zoma blessed God for the many people who serve him - we're built for specialization.

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